All the same

So yeah one of my friends that I have known for like 15 yrs comes back from Oregon..We have been talkin for the last 3 yrs that when he comes back this way he is going to come see me so he did the first day he was back. That kinda made me feel special. He says that he really likes me n has for a long time. Well I found myself starting to like him but now im changing my mind. He already lied bout why he moved back here, was cause he was on really bad drugs there n had to get away. But yet he was in a relationship with someone for 3 yrs n has a new 4 month old baby girl.She wouldnt come with him n his sonn I know he wants to be back with her but he is tellin me he dont, its all lies. I read one of his emails that said he couldnt wait to get back to her. I honestly think that he is just using me hoping to get some booty or something hell IDK..He acts so secretive bout everything, I mean hell if he cant trust me now then whats the point. I felt like at first that maybe he came around for a reason but now I think its just so we can be friends n be there for each other n nothing else. It just sucks that when I think I have found someone that might be different just a little bit they turn out to be just like the rest and this time I know I am not going to let myself get hurt.